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you belong
here.

"Friendship is the greatest flex."

Building real connections, one conversation at a time. A safe, warm space for Black women to find community, laughter, and lifelong friends.

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You & Amara both love brunch
Atlanta, GA ยท 2 mutual events
This Saturday
โ˜• Coffee & Convo
14 sisters going
"You already belong here."
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Life-changing community

Because every Black girl
deserves her squad.

"Find your people. Keep them close."

After college, making real friends as a Black woman can feel impossible. Work is work, apps feel transactional, and social anxiety is real. We built BGMF to change that.

No pressure. No performance. Just Black women, honest conversations, and the kind of friendships that last a lifetime. You don't have to earn your place here โ€” you already belong.

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Warm
Speak like that one friend who always makes you feel seen.
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Bold
Friendship as a radical act for Black women deserves confidence.
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Soft
Gentleness is strength. Tender, not timid.
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Joyful
Celebrate the small wins โ€” a new bestie, a coffee date.

Your next bestie might be
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Look what we built
together.

"Every meetup is proof that Black women choosing each other is magic."
BGMF First Meetup โ€” the women who started it all
Where It All Started โœฆ
"Every big thing starts with a small room full of the right women."

The First BGMF Meetup

This is where it all began. A handful of Black women who showed up, said yes to something new, and became the foundation of what is now a 130,000-woman movement. We'll never forget where we started.

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The original BGMF sisterhood
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The night that proved this was bigger than us
๐Ÿ’œ 130,000+ women strong โ€” and growing
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Recap โœฆ February 2026
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Galentines
in Savannah

February 21st, 2026 ยท Savannah, GA
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Pure Love
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Celebrated
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Unforgettable
"Love yourself. Love your girls. Love Savannah."

Our Galentines in Savannah was a celebration of self-love, sisterhood, and the magic that happens when Black women pour into each other. From cobblestone walks to candlelit dinners โ€” this one lives in our hearts forever.

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Savannah, Georgia ยท Historic District
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February 21st, 2026
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A Galentines celebration of Black womanhood

Sisterhood, city by city.

BGMF meetup in Dallas, TX
Dallas, TX
Hosted by Brittany
BGMF meetup in Tampa Bay, FL
Tampa Bay, FL
Hosted by Sherese
BGMF meetup in Birmingham, AL
Birmingham, AL
Hosted by Jazmine
BGMF meetup in Miami, FL
Miami, FL
Hosted by Lashonda
BGMF meetup in Savannah, GA
Savannah, GA
Hosted by Eka & Ty
BGMF meetup in Chicago, IL
Chicago, IL
Hosted by Lats
BGMF meetup in Chicago, IL
Chicago, IL
Hosted by Toya
BGMF meetup in Orlando, FL
Orlando, FL
Hosted by Breeah
BGMF meetup in Raleigh, NC
Raleigh, NC
Hosted by Teri

130,000 Black women are
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The real conversation happens inside our Facebook group โ€” events, friendships, wins, advice, travel plans, and everything in between. Come find your people.

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Black Girls
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Our flagship Facebook group โ€” 130,000+ members strong. Post, connect, ask for advice, share your wins, and find friends in your city.

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The group is where trip interest, waitlists, and travel convos start.
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27,000+ women ยท For Black women 35 and wiser
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Caribbean
Chasers
For the island-obsessed ยท Carnival ยท Group travel
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Eka, Founder of Black Girls Making Friends
Founder
Eka ยท A Dose of Travels
38 countries & counting โœˆ๏ธ

Built by a Black woman
who needed this too.

Hi, I'm Eka โ€” founder of Black Girls Making Friends and A Dose of Travels. I started BGMF in 2019 because I knew exactly how it felt to be in a new city, craving genuine connection, and not knowing where to find it.

What started as a small Facebook group became a 130,000-woman movement โ€” and I couldn't be more proud of every sister who chose to show up, be vulnerable, and build real friendships here.

"I built the room I always needed. Now I just hold the door open."

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Words from the sisterhood

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"I moved here knowing nobody. Within a month I had a whole sisterhood. BGMF didn't just give me friends โ€” it gave me home."

Simone T.
Atlanta, GA
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BGMF runs because of women who believe in this community enough to pour their time into it. We have volunteer roles open right now โ€” and one of them might have your name on it.

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Host in-person BGMF meetups in your city.
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Promote group trips within the BGMF community.
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Create branded graphics for events and social.
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Virtual Event Host
Host online hangouts, book clubs & game nights.
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All roles are volunteer ยท We personally review every application ๐ŸŒธ

We've got
answers, sis.

Is BGMF free to join? โ†“
Yes! Joining the BGMF community is completely free. Some special events, girls trips, and retreats have their own costs, but becoming a member and attending local meetups is always free.
How do I find events near me? โ†“
Check our Events section above! Events are listed by city. You can also join our newsletter to get notified first when new events drop in your area. If there's no host in your city yet, consider applying to become a City Host!
What happens after I RSVP? โ†“
After you RSVP, you'll receive a confirmation with all the event details โ€” location, time, what to bring, and what to expect. We'll also send a reminder as the date gets closer. Just show up and be yourself! ๐ŸŒธ
I'm shy โ€” will I fit in? โ†“
Absolutely. Most of our members showed up to their first event nervous. Our hosts are intentional about making everyone feel seen and welcomed the moment they walk in. You don't have to be the life of the party โ€” you just have to show up.
Can I bring a friend? โ†“
Of course! Bringing a friend is always welcome. Just make sure she RSVPs too so we have an accurate headcount. The more the merrier โ€” as long as everyone's there to genuinely connect. ๐Ÿ’œ
How do I become a City Host? โ†“
We'd love to have you! Visit our City Host page to learn about the role and submit your application. We personally review every application and will reach out about next steps.
How do I contact BGMF directly? โ†“
You can reach us anytime at [email protected] โ€” we typically respond within 2 business days. You can also DM us on Instagram, Facebook, or TikTok @blackgirlsmakingfriends.

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